Seksomnia, Sex On But in Sleep Condition

There are several disorders that occur during sleep, one of them is asleep but without consciously having healthy sex. who had experienced sexsomnia disturbance (asleep but while making love) for 5 years.

Stephen (27 years) have seksomnia for 5 years, he did it with his partner Kelly Rampling (27 years). The experts expressed seksomnia is someone who often have no memory of what he had done. Currently they already had a son named Harrison (2 years).

"I began to see sex in the middle of the night is very different to how we make love at other times, no kissing, no foreplay. He was just done and then say thank you," Kelly said.

Kelly said he tried to speak with Stephen when having sex, her eyes were open but empty eyes stare and no response at all. Kelly said she even like having sex with zombies.

"At that moment I realized Stephen had sex in her sleep. That was 5 years ago and although we still have a healthy sex life, we had sex 4-5 times a week, he still suffered from sexsomnia," said Kelly.

Condition is experienced enough to make Kelly feel disturbed and tiring, even embarrassing compared with medical conditions. Kelly sometimes wake up at night and found himself lying on top of Stephen.

"Usually when I do, I'll get grumpy Kelly's face when I wake in the morning. I never woke up in the middle of sleep, to be honest I was very embarrassed by this fact," said Stephen.

Stephen tells his friends thought he was greedy and laugh when they hear this, but Stephen felt it was not a laughing matter if someone is experiencing the same thing.

"Five years is a long time for Kelly and Stehphen in the face of sexsomnia, but luckily they have good communication. Because this condition can interfere with the relationship," says Dr Pam Spurr, relationship expert.

The issue of sex is sometimes difficult to discuss because not all people want are open about their sexual disorders. This condition can destroy the relationships that exist.

Sexsomnia is a common behavior that includes self-enjoyment, clinical psychological approaches such as stress therapy can help and regular sleep patterns that could alleviate the problem.

Researchers from Canada found one of the 12 people admitted to being involved or initiate sexual activity during sleep. The best treatment is to get advice from experts in sleep medicine.

Just as sleep disorders in general, seksomnia also accompanied by symptoms such as anxiety, insomnia, and depression. The reason could be due to the consumption of alcohol, use illegal drugs, insomnia, and caffeine.

This condition is more often experienced by men, ie 11 percent of men and in women, only 4 percent. Overall, sexsomnia disruption experienced by 7.6 per cent of patients.